What to Look for When Choosing a Nursery: A Practical Checklist

Choosing a nursery for your child is one of the most important decisions you'll make as a parent. You're entrusting someone else with your child's care, learning, and wellbeing during crucial developmental years. Here's a practical guide to evaluating nurseries and finding the right one for your family.
Regulatory standards and inspection. In the UK, nurseries are regulated by Ofsted. Check the latest inspection report on the Ofsted website. Look for ratings of "Good" or "Outstanding," but also read the detailed feedback. A "Requires Improvement" rating doesn't necessarily mean it's wrong for your child, but it's worth understanding what needs to improve.
Qualifications and staffing. Ask about staff qualifications. Key staff should have relevant early years qualifications (Level 3 minimum, ideally Level 2 or above in Early Years Education and Care). Find out about staff turnover—high turnover can disrupt children's relationships with carers. Ask about the ratio of staff to children; this varies by age but should never exceed 1:8 for older toddlers.
The physical environment. Visit in person and observe. Is it clean, safe, and well-organised? Are there age-appropriate toys and resources? Is there both indoor and outdoor space? Can you see evidence of children's work displayed? The environment tells you a lot about how much learning and play is valued.
Philosophy and approach. Does the nursery's educational philosophy align with yours? Do they use play-based learning? How do they support individual children's interests and developmental needs? Ask about their approach to behaviour, settling in, and communication with parents.
Key person system. Each child should have a designated key person who builds a strong relationship with them. This person is the main point of contact for parents and provides continuity of care. Ask who will be your child's key person and how often they'll see them.
Observe the interactions. Watch how staff interact with children. Do they get down to children's level? Are they warm and responsive? Do children seem happy and engaged? Are staff talking to children and asking questions? These observations reveal the quality of care more than anything else.
Communication and partnership. How do they keep parents informed? Do they use apps, diaries, or conversations at pickup? Is there regular feedback about your child's development and learning? Good nurseries see parents as partners in their child's development.
Meals and routines. Ask about meals—are they nutritious and do they cater for allergies and dietary needs? What about nap times and toileting? Consistent, predictable routines help children feel secure.
Cost and flexibility. Understand the fees, what's included, and any additional costs. Check what happens during holidays and if they're flexible with hours if your circumstances change. Ask about funding (15 or 30 hours free childcare) and how it's applied.
Trust your instinct. After checking all the practical boxes, pay attention to how you feel. Do you feel your child would be happy there? Do you trust the staff? Would you feel confident leaving your child in their care? Your gut feeling matters.
Visit more than once. If possible, visit at different times of day. A nursery at 9am looks different from 2pm. Seeing different times gives you a fuller picture of the experience.